Messy Room Equals Messy Life

-
gambar 1: Messy Room. Source: pjvanoverschot.wordpress.com


Messy room equals messy life. Is that right?
Well, it depends on, if you spend most of your time at your room, then it is right. But if you spend most of your time at your home, at kitchen, living room, your room, etc, and it mess, then your life also mess.

It have correlation, you know, if your life get messy, for example like you have fight with your boy or struggling with something in your life then you don't have much time to cleaning up your room. (We assume room if where we spend most of our time). You sleep there, eat there, doing homework there, do your hair in there and God-knows-what you doing in there. Are you even cleaning your mess after you eat? Or when you wake up, are you even cleaning your bed? The answer is NO! Well, maybe your mom help you cleaning it or maybe your house maid do it for you. But is it really clean and neat? I don't think so.

So, the thing is, I have a theory why you are not cleaning it. It because you are too busy struggling with your problem and you forget about your environment.

Formula: 
You have problem -> you still doing what you are doing -> you forget to cleaning you room -> it become messy, for your problem, your life, your mind and even your room.
Why you asking? Because when you have a problem, you find a way to working it out and in the process you looking at your messy room. Add that up.

And that's why my friend, your room get messy because you have a problem.

The other theory I had is... When you are enjoying your life too much, you forget to clean everything suddenly you have a problem and you struggling so hard, you don't even have time to cleaning that up and when you trying to make it right, you can't think clear because what you look is a mess.
Formula: 
You enjoying your life too much-> forget to cleaning up your room -> your room get messy -> you have problem -> your room get messier than ever because you have a problem and don't have much time to manage it -> you trying to find solution for your problem -> you looking at your room and it's a mess -> your head spinning around and it get ugly for your mind, your life and your room.

And that's why when your room is messy, you can't think clear and it make your life also messy just like your room.

What I have to do about it?
I'm glad you ask!

For prevention, you could cleaning up your room when you got a chance. So whenever you have a problem, at least it will least messy than your problem.

If you have a problem and your room is already messy, I can offer three simple solution to do.
First, find another place to thinking and it should be neat, fresh and clean.
Second, give some of your time and anger energy to cleaning your room, change your room position order if you have to.
Third, talk to someone about your problem over and over again, if you have to talk about it to your teddy bear, write that down, made chart, draw it,  until you know what you are dealing with, you know what's really happening and maybe you know why it happens.

You could do one of the three solution that I'm offering or you could do three of them. Just remember, you don't have much time. Make it quick, do it right. sometimes, you are not doing the right thing, but remember to do the things right.

Own it, Live it, Love it. Hug, Love and Kisses, Sam.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Vocal 4: Perut Kosong VS Perut Terisi Ketika Bernyanyi

-
Image
source:  artinest.com Kalo nyanyi itu baiknya ketika perut dalam keadaan kosong atau dalam keadaan terisi? Answer: setengah isi setengah kosong. Bukan, itu bukan judul buku. tapi jawabannya emang itu. Coba kita review satu-satu ya... Kalo kita nyanyi dalam keadaan perut yang kosong, tenaga yang kita punya sedikit, jadi akibatnya ketika mau memproyeksikan suara atau mengeluarkan suara, tenaganya gak ada. Alias gak bisa keluar suara secara appropriate. Gimana tuh kalo mau nyanyi tapi gak ada tenaga? Nyanyinya gak fokus, suara yang keluar gak keras, apa lagi? Banyak.... Kalo nyanyi dalam keadaan perut yang terisi penuh (dalam hal ini terisi penuh ya,) akibatnya.... susah ngatur nafas. Coba deh, kalo nyanyi, nafasnya kan pake perut (istilahnya nafas perut) kalo perutnya udah penuh, udah full, buat mengembung lagi kan susah, jadi nafas yang bisa di ambil jadi sedikit. Power sih power, tapi kalo nyanyinya ngos-ngosan? Susah juga kan...? Jadi emang paling baik ...
Read more

Vocal 2: Kenapa Kalo Nyanyi Tanpa Musik Suara Gw Kedengeran Lebih Bagus?

-
Image
Gambar 1: Siluet orang bernyanyi, Source:pelajar-abal.blogspot.com Tenang mbak bro! itu bukan masalah lo doang, banyak kok orang diluar sana yang ngalamin hal yang sama. kalo nyanyi tanpa diiringin sama lagu atau musik, suaranya bagus banget cetar membahana, tapi kalo udah pake musik, kok suaranya jadi kedengeran biasa aja ya? Penyebabnya, bisa macem-macem tuh kalo itu, diantaranya: 1. Lo gak terbiasa nyanyi diiringin pake musik. Biasanya, kalo lo nyanyi, diiringin pake musik atau gak? Kalo lo terbiasa nyanyi tanpa iringan dari musik, nah, bisa jadi nih ini penyebabnya. Karena lo terbiasa nyanyi tanpa iringan musik, jadi ketika lo harus nyanyi dengan iringan musik, lo merasa aneh dan gak terbiasa. Akibatnya, ketika lo nyanyi, ada rasa awkward gitu. 2. Gak pede nyanyi ketika diiringin pake musik Nah, kalo ini sih lain lagi ceritanya. Mungkin lo sering nyanyi pake iringan musik, mungkin juga gak, tapi yang pasti, ketika lo nyanyi dengan iringan musik, lo jadi gak pede....
Read more

Warung Tekko - Jakarta, Pesanggrahan

-
Image
disclaimer: Artikel ini bukan bermaksud menjelekkan ataupun promosi. Murni cuma ulasan atau review. Ola! mungkin sebelumnya udah pernah ada yang makan di Warung Tekko, mungkin juga belom. gambar 1: Warung Tekko, Pesanggrahan. Source: Sam's doc. Apa sih Warung Tekko? Warung Tekko itu restoran spesialis Iga Penyet, lho, itu bukannya Warung Leko? Nah, ada yang namanya Warung Tekko, ada juga Warung Leko. tapi yang pengen gw ulas itu Warung Tekko. kalo ada yang nanya bedanya, gw gak mau banding-bandingin kedua restoran itu, gw juga gak mau nerka-nerka kenapa dua restoran itu punya konsep yang sama, nama yang hampir mirip dan menu yang sama, mungkin kaya maicih dan ma'icih? mungkin kaya restoran suharti yang pake logo ibu dan ayam? gw gak tau, mungkin ada yang mau interview pemiliknya dan di pasang di blog? Anyway, gw, nyokap dan eyang gw kemaren buka puasa di Warung Tekko yang lokasinya di Pesanggrahan. di jalan pesanggrahan itu penuh banget sama rest...
Read more