I just watch "Wizards of Waverly Place" season 2 episode 3, Graphic Novel. You can watch it at Disney XD, I'm not gonna tell you about the episode but something bothering me about the episode.
Justin Russo said
Damn, it's true.
Family-hate is a condition when we can hate our family member, either it's your mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, etc. But you still have to love them at the same time.
People-hate is a condition when we can hate people and we don't have to love them. Just hate them until you die or forgave them. That's up to you, it's your prerogative.
When we hate people, we can get eliminate them from our life. We can broke up with our lover, we can lost contact with our friends, we can move away to Indonesia, live in Bali or Lombok sometimes to Bandung or Jakarta.
BUT when we hate our family member or I called family-hate we can't choose to run away. Yeah, we still can move to Bali, but it doesn't change the fact that you have a bond with them, even it just a little. Even they just cousin by married.
You can choose whoever your friend is, but you can't choose whoever your family is. Love it or Hate it, you have to love it anyway.
If your family is ruin that means your life is ruin, too. You have to help your family when they have a problem. Trust me, it's harder than forget about your ex. They just live in the past of yours. Your family? They live in your past, present and future.
As for you, the one who become a victim of train wreck. Yes, your family might have a right to complain about you, they have right to angry at you, judge you and make decision for you. You, anyway, you are the one who decide where your life is headed. You have the authority to decide what best for you and what you wanna do about it. Your family may hate you, but they love you. Take advice from they doesn't gonna kill you, it just irritating a lot. Like, A LOT. But, finding your own way and successful is way more....... (please finish my sentence)
As usual, Own it, live it, love it. Hug, love and kisses. Sam.
Justin Russo said
We have to distinguish between family-hate and people-hate
Damn, it's true.
Family-hate is a condition when we can hate our family member, either it's your mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, etc. But you still have to love them at the same time.
People-hate is a condition when we can hate people and we don't have to love them. Just hate them until you die or forgave them. That's up to you, it's your prerogative.
When we hate people, we can get eliminate them from our life. We can broke up with our lover, we can lost contact with our friends, we can move away to Indonesia, live in Bali or Lombok sometimes to Bandung or Jakarta.
BUT when we hate our family member or I called family-hate we can't choose to run away. Yeah, we still can move to Bali, but it doesn't change the fact that you have a bond with them, even it just a little. Even they just cousin by married.
You can choose whoever your friend is, but you can't choose whoever your family is. Love it or Hate it, you have to love it anyway.
If your family is ruin that means your life is ruin, too. You have to help your family when they have a problem. Trust me, it's harder than forget about your ex. They just live in the past of yours. Your family? They live in your past, present and future.
As for you, the one who become a victim of train wreck. Yes, your family might have a right to complain about you, they have right to angry at you, judge you and make decision for you. You, anyway, you are the one who decide where your life is headed. You have the authority to decide what best for you and what you wanna do about it. Your family may hate you, but they love you. Take advice from they doesn't gonna kill you, it just irritating a lot. Like, A LOT. But, finding your own way and successful is way more....... (please finish my sentence)
As usual, Own it, live it, love it. Hug, love and kisses. Sam.
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