Friendzone (read: frenjone)
What is that? That is a zone when you had a crush at someone but s/he doesn't feel the same. S/he just considering you as their friend even you considering them as your lover. It has no mutual feeling at all.
Should you waiting until the feeling mutual or leave it still it can?
It depends.
Please noted that you can't ask him. At all, really. You have to read the situation and predict what would happen and take a decision whether you should pursue your dream or move on.
You might had a chance if...
He treated you like they couldn't live without you. But you have to disguise between you become their servant or you become their partner. If they treated you as their partner, then you should go ahead. They in confusing state, maybe you too ugly for them, maybe you too fat for them, maybe it's physical, maybe it's your emotional or maybe because you come from different world like Ariel the Mermaid? or Cinderella the Orphan, the step daughter, the step sister, should I keep it going? You know where this is end, right?
You should go for it, but you also had to be realistic for a moment, thinking about your social hierarchy, your family compare to them, your knowledge. If it's not a problem, then maybe it's about chemistry. Sooner or later he'll become yours.
If he doesn't the one who thinking about all of that, it's about chemistry. Like I said, it just a matter of time.
You don't have a chance if....
S/he is a very independent people who actually doesn't need your help and you just getting in a way. They hold you into their life just cause they like to have you in their live. It's friend zone.
No matter how much you try, you never had a chance. They didn't need you, no, I mean they didn't want you as their lover, just as friend. As a friend, they didn't asking or thinking about social hierarchy, knowledge, school you go to, and on, and on. It's just.... They didn't like the idea about dating you, that's all.
And you have to quit if....
S/he treated you as their number one fan, if S/he so ego and self-center, only thinking about himself before you.
Dude, you should pack your stuff and go.
It's not friend zone anymore. It's a servant zone. S/he doesn't deserve you.
If this happen, you could make a little "test" to make sure S/he really are a turd or he just ego and thinking about you secretly.
You can came out with your idea, it should be simple. Like you tell your bad day to him and look for his reaction is S/he looking at mirror and don't care about you or pretend listening to your crap and nodding. If he pretend listening. At least S/he tried to.
Well, it's in your hand now.
Do you wanna give up or follow the one you love even they didn't love you back?
What is that? That is a zone when you had a crush at someone but s/he doesn't feel the same. S/he just considering you as their friend even you considering them as your lover. It has no mutual feeling at all.
Should you waiting until the feeling mutual or leave it still it can?
It depends.
Please noted that you can't ask him. At all, really. You have to read the situation and predict what would happen and take a decision whether you should pursue your dream or move on.
You might had a chance if...
He treated you like they couldn't live without you. But you have to disguise between you become their servant or you become their partner. If they treated you as their partner, then you should go ahead. They in confusing state, maybe you too ugly for them, maybe you too fat for them, maybe it's physical, maybe it's your emotional or maybe because you come from different world like Ariel the Mermaid? or Cinderella the Orphan, the step daughter, the step sister, should I keep it going? You know where this is end, right?
You should go for it, but you also had to be realistic for a moment, thinking about your social hierarchy, your family compare to them, your knowledge. If it's not a problem, then maybe it's about chemistry. Sooner or later he'll become yours.
If he doesn't the one who thinking about all of that, it's about chemistry. Like I said, it just a matter of time.
You don't have a chance if....
S/he is a very independent people who actually doesn't need your help and you just getting in a way. They hold you into their life just cause they like to have you in their live. It's friend zone.
No matter how much you try, you never had a chance. They didn't need you, no, I mean they didn't want you as their lover, just as friend. As a friend, they didn't asking or thinking about social hierarchy, knowledge, school you go to, and on, and on. It's just.... They didn't like the idea about dating you, that's all.
And you have to quit if....
S/he treated you as their number one fan, if S/he so ego and self-center, only thinking about himself before you.
Dude, you should pack your stuff and go.
It's not friend zone anymore. It's a servant zone. S/he doesn't deserve you.
If this happen, you could make a little "test" to make sure S/he really are a turd or he just ego and thinking about you secretly.
You can came out with your idea, it should be simple. Like you tell your bad day to him and look for his reaction is S/he looking at mirror and don't care about you or pretend listening to your crap and nodding. If he pretend listening. At least S/he tried to.
Well, it's in your hand now.
Do you wanna give up or follow the one you love even they didn't love you back?
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