Wise man said that don't let your man talking about your relationship with their girl friend, it also apply to reversal, don't let your lady talking about your relationship with their boy friend, especially when their alone.
Why? There's slightly a chance that your boy/girlfriend gonna be stolen by them. Start from small talk then become a someone who could comfort them, being there when you're not there and when there's a chance, they take that chance to stole your love life.
It is that simple, or is it?
NO! Affair is a symptom of the problem in the relationship, it's not the actual problem.
That could've been cause from the both parties, not just one. It happen maybe because they didn't talking about their fulfil needs, barely even having a date, texting, and/or talk to each other, less of commitment, and so on.
So, if you're in healthy relationship, both of you are happy, barely even have an argument, even if you did, you always find a way to make up, then you don't have to worry your spouse are having an affair. Even if they flirt with your boyfriend so hard over and over again no matter how hard they tried, no matter how many times or how many ways, they never gonna end up with her. His all yours.
But if he end up with her. That mean your not in healthy relationship.
"What should I do? I really love him/her, I can't life without him/her, s/he's my whole life!"
There there.... Cry, Allow yourself to feel sad. Don't destroyed your body like making a tattoo, smoking, drinking or else. It just making a prove that you're not worthy, and they win the break up . Do something that you're not gonna regret it later.
Come over to your old friends, meet with new people, having a new activity, buy you some clothes, gave away some stuff. If that also not helping, then find a professional, go to a psychologist and be happy. You deserve to be happy. It's not them who make you suffer. It's a state of mind.
Own it, live it, love it.
Hug, love and kisses.
Sam.
Why? There's slightly a chance that your boy/girlfriend gonna be stolen by them. Start from small talk then become a someone who could comfort them, being there when you're not there and when there's a chance, they take that chance to stole your love life.
It is that simple, or is it?
NO! Affair is a symptom of the problem in the relationship, it's not the actual problem.
That could've been cause from the both parties, not just one. It happen maybe because they didn't talking about their fulfil needs, barely even having a date, texting, and/or talk to each other, less of commitment, and so on.
So, if you're in healthy relationship, both of you are happy, barely even have an argument, even if you did, you always find a way to make up, then you don't have to worry your spouse are having an affair. Even if they flirt with your boyfriend so hard over and over again no matter how hard they tried, no matter how many times or how many ways, they never gonna end up with her. His all yours.
But if he end up with her. That mean your not in healthy relationship.
"What should I do? I really love him/her, I can't life without him/her, s/he's my whole life!"
There there.... Cry, Allow yourself to feel sad. Don't destroyed your body like making a tattoo, smoking, drinking or else. It just making a prove that you're not worthy, and they win the break up . Do something that you're not gonna regret it later.
Come over to your old friends, meet with new people, having a new activity, buy you some clothes, gave away some stuff. If that also not helping, then find a professional, go to a psychologist and be happy. You deserve to be happy. It's not them who make you suffer. It's a state of mind.
Own it, live it, love it.
Hug, love and kisses.
Sam.
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